Yes, we have rights. Here's the thing, though. I was wild in my younger days. I was pulled over and searched multiple times. I was an obnoxious teenager, and I was not treated well, even though I was never arrested. I was afraid of cops and thought they were all jerks. I was pulled over for speeding and for looking suspicious most of the time. I also tended to have illegal things on me, though I was lucky. Only once did a search end up successful, but the cops let me go. I didn't appreciate it, though. I was still a punk. I have no idea why they let me slide.
I'd also like to point out that not all of the time did the cops have probable cause for a search. One time I was searched I was given "smell" as the reason. I had not done anything that day or in that vehicle for it to have a smell. I simply looked suspicious. If you do tell cops you do not consent to a search, it is my experience that they will call in a K9 unit. I'm not defending them; just mentioning it because sometimes knowing your rights isn't going to get you out of a time-consuming stop, especially if you are rude. If all you have is a PV, you're not going to get arrested, but you may find a lot more of your time is taken up if you are on the defensive.
I got a little older and became a boring, law-abiding citizen and have been pulled over a handful of times since then. I wasn't nervous because I knew I didn't have illegal things on my person or in my car, and I was polite because the cop was no longer my enemy. I didn't get a ticket or get searched or get treated like a scumbag on any of those occasions, even though the cops had justification to write me tickets ( seatbelt, ran a red light, seatbelt again, throwing a cigarette out my window ). All the stops took less than 5 minutes of my time.
I found that cops became much nicer when I became much nicer to them and stopped breaking the law. I don't know your situation or what your look says to cops; I just know that for me I got what I gave. That doesn't mean all cops will respond to politeness because they are just people, too. I'm sure there are some out there who just like to be a pain in the ..., and some out there are probably terrible human beings, as with anyone you encounter in life.
As for respect for cops, I have two things to say on that.
Number 1: When you need them, you will be grateful for them. You may hate cops, but if someone robs you/stabs you/breaks in, who are you going to call? (Hint - not Ghostbusters.)
Number 2: Imagine this scenario: It's late at night; you are on a deserted road in the middle of nowhere with no streetlights; you're a cop, and you see a beat-up, old car going 25 mph over the speed limit. The license plate light is out. You then have to pull them over and approach an unknown vehicle with unknown persons inside of it with no idea of who they are or if they are carrying a weapon. Scary? I think so.
For the record, I'm in my 40's, no tattoo's, no piercing's, occasionally my hair is down to my shoulders, no drug usage, no arrests and my worst conviction was an open container about 15 years ago.
I DO live in podunk, and I HAVE dealt with the mess that brings! I was stopped one night because the LEO thought the scratches on the trunk of my old car looked like I had been doing "lines" on it!
I've watched as the local yocal LEO's held a kid for three hours, blocking traffic both ways on the street I live on, doing everything in their power to find ANYTHING in his car!
I was standing outside the convince store drinking a beer with a buddy when five LEO's come in red light and siren and hold us at gun point because someone reported us as robbing said store?
I've had my car broken into, I was told there wasn't much they could do.
I've had my truck broken into, I was told there wasn't much they could do.
I've had my home broken into, I was told there wasn't much they could do.
But if my music gets to loud, I get three LEO's here to take me in for disorderly conduct.
As I am known to carry a gun when I'm pulled over I turn on the dome light and place my hands out the window. EVERY traffic stop in my town is a "felony arrest" in their minds with me. I'm used to exiting my vehicle at gun point, though it's no crime for me to do what I am doing. I live in an open carry county, and NO, I don't make it a point to press the cops on it, but it is MY RIGHT!
I treat LEO's as they treat me, no better, no worse, be nice to me, and I'm cool as a cucumber, come of with the normal attitude, you get it back. Sorry if that makes me bad, but it is what it is!
I'm on a first name basis with the police chief, known him for years, we've had good and bad days, but he's always been square with me, and I the same with him. I RESPECT him, but I can't say the same for many of his underlings!
I've lived in this town for 40 some years, back in '87 I worked for the city, I was stopped for a non working tag light. My truck, the one I was driving at the time, was parked 40 some hours a week at city hall, but I was held for over two hours while the attending LEO tried to run my tag and "check me out" through the computer system!
I've had the son of a husband wife reserve duo come at me with a pipe one night at the convince store as I was getting gas because I "supposedly" made a fist at his dad one night?
I guess I'm hardened anymore, but I've learned it does little to no good to count on them, call them or utilize them in much capacity that would benefit me at all anymore. IMO they are a bane on society looking for a way to make the innocent guilty anyway they can, because it's easier to do that then actually do what they are supposed to do.