Just going to put an experience I had...
I told a member (not through the regular pif thread) that I'd send some stuff she needed, thought I'd ship that week, it took about a week to get sent out. I'll leave out my excuses but I just had a rough week and couldn't make it to the po.
Just thought there may be others just lagging...
I have belonged to this group for awhile. This is a major reason I have not participated much. I have MS and sometimes I can walk and drive and sometimes I can't. Unfortunately I never know when this will happen. I would not like to disappoint someone.
I sometimes notice the 'cliquish' thing, but I feel it is just some members participate more often than others.
So sorry you didn't get what was offered to you. But it looks like the good people here will make up for it 3 fold. Don't let one bad apple ruin the experience for you. There are really good people here.