Anyone know any tricks ??
Seriously this is getting ridiculous my youngest son has left the house 3 times and keeps coming back. My wife and I disagree on the lengths we should go to for him to leave for good.
It wouldn't be so bad if he appreciated having a place to come home to, but he's just an ....
Eating all our food and spending his meager pay check on going out.
I just changed the password on our wireless internet and made the network un-discoverable.
Since he spends 15 hours a day on there I hope that motivates him to move along again.
I don't want to sound cold, but you would really have to spend some time with him to understand what we are going through. Sadly it only takes about 5 minutes with him to understand why he can't keep a job or any friends to help him out. He's is one walking bad attitude. He won't even apply for a job he thinks is "beneath" him. He has been in the workforce for 6 years and has had at least 35 jobs .... I'm not making this up. He's had more than 20 jobs that didn't last 15 days!!
Oddly though, of all the jobs he has lost not one of them has been "his fault"
Amazing huh, actually nothing bad that has happened to him has ever been his fault in his mind.
WTF. I'm 44 and have only had 3 different jobs my whole life. And I've never been fired from any of them.
He even tried the army 2 years ago. They kicked him out. His CO called us on the phone and talked to me for a bit before they sent him packing. He told me he had serious issues and needed to work on his anger management and impulse control .... DUH ... that why we sent him into the Army to straighten him out.
Sorry to rant so early in the morning ..... But I'm loosing it here. If he doesn't find a way to leave soon I might have to.
Seriously this is getting ridiculous my youngest son has left the house 3 times and keeps coming back. My wife and I disagree on the lengths we should go to for him to leave for good.
It wouldn't be so bad if he appreciated having a place to come home to, but he's just an ....
Eating all our food and spending his meager pay check on going out.
I just changed the password on our wireless internet and made the network un-discoverable.
Since he spends 15 hours a day on there I hope that motivates him to move along again.
I don't want to sound cold, but you would really have to spend some time with him to understand what we are going through. Sadly it only takes about 5 minutes with him to understand why he can't keep a job or any friends to help him out. He's is one walking bad attitude. He won't even apply for a job he thinks is "beneath" him. He has been in the workforce for 6 years and has had at least 35 jobs .... I'm not making this up. He's had more than 20 jobs that didn't last 15 days!!
Oddly though, of all the jobs he has lost not one of them has been "his fault"
Amazing huh, actually nothing bad that has happened to him has ever been his fault in his mind.
WTF. I'm 44 and have only had 3 different jobs my whole life. And I've never been fired from any of them.
He even tried the army 2 years ago. They kicked him out. His CO called us on the phone and talked to me for a bit before they sent him packing. He told me he had serious issues and needed to work on his anger management and impulse control .... DUH ... that why we sent him into the Army to straighten him out.
Sorry to rant so early in the morning ..... But I'm loosing it here. If he doesn't find a way to leave soon I might have to.