Okay I have a new story to share XD
It was the day before my 20th birthday, my mom wanted to take me out to chinese for lunch. I never get to see her that often so I thought of this as nothing more than just lunch. Once we got to the restaurant she asked what kind of girls I like. Naturally I responded by telling her qualities I like in a person (all qualities I like in a guy though heh). She asked if I had a picture of some girls I like and I didn't know what to say. This is where she starts bombarding me with questions like 'why dont you ever bring girls home' and finally asks me if im gay. "No of course not! why do you think that?". She says that she wants to be a grandmother and that she doesn't think my sister will provide one so its all up to me; That because I never talk about girls or 'check girls out' that she fears im gay. "I just don't want you to live an unhappy life because you think you can't get girls". At this point I was like 'wtf?!'. I didn't know where to start on this one, so she took advantage of the moment and asked me "does your sister know?" to which I responded "No she doesn't know". She got me
So now my mum knows but thinks this is just a phase I will pass through as if this is a choice I made. I now have to fear her outing me to the family because she says "____ is going to find out, you may as well tell him/her".
Oh so my answer for how old I was when I came out to my mom is 20 heh
It was the day before my 20th birthday, my mom wanted to take me out to chinese for lunch. I never get to see her that often so I thought of this as nothing more than just lunch. Once we got to the restaurant she asked what kind of girls I like. Naturally I responded by telling her qualities I like in a person (all qualities I like in a guy though heh). She asked if I had a picture of some girls I like and I didn't know what to say. This is where she starts bombarding me with questions like 'why dont you ever bring girls home' and finally asks me if im gay. "No of course not! why do you think that?". She says that she wants to be a grandmother and that she doesn't think my sister will provide one so its all up to me; That because I never talk about girls or 'check girls out' that she fears im gay. "I just don't want you to live an unhappy life because you think you can't get girls". At this point I was like 'wtf?!'. I didn't know where to start on this one, so she took advantage of the moment and asked me "does your sister know?" to which I responded "No she doesn't know". She got me
So now my mum knows but thinks this is just a phase I will pass through as if this is a choice I made. I now have to fear her outing me to the family because she says "____ is going to find out, you may as well tell him/her".
Oh so my answer for how old I was when I came out to my mom is 20 heh