I don't vape in close quarters with strangers or anyone that has expressed a dislike for the smell, or anyplace that asks me not to (none yet). So far my wife next to me in bed hasn't noticed anything except when I asked her and blew it at her (and she's generally over sensitive to smells
). I'm discreet in no smoking areas, but I also don't feel I need permission unless I plan on doing it there repeatedly or less discreetly, which is not usual. It's NOT the same as smoking so I don't feel bad about it, but I'm not getting in anyone's face over it either. While vaping hasn't been proven to be benign, it most certainly HAS been proven to be substantially less harmful than smoking tobacco, which lest we forget, is what a No Smoking regulation or sign is targeted at.
My rights DO end where other's begin but that doesn't mean that one trumps the other. It's an impasse that needs a solution. It's a two way street like everything else and if it actually bothers someone than it's their obligation to politely tell me, and my obligation to politely and reasonably work with them to eliminate their discomfort. That's just being civil. My personal analogy is that some body odors annoy me and some perfumes make it hard for me to breathe, but it's not that difficult to correct the situation myself without resorting to confrontation or asking that legislation be enacted. And as far as I know some of those perfumes probably actually do harm my respiratory system. Still, I don't need to get all righteous about it unless your married to me or we're chained together at the wrist.