Ah bluedove, I know this is going to sound weird but try having some tea at night? Something with a calming effect like camomile's. I've been having good effects with Yerba Mate tea. It doesn't seem like you have a real eating disorder.
From Wiki on Compulsive eating.
The physical explanation of compulsive overeating may be attributed to an overeaters' increased tendency to secrete insulin at the sight and smell of food, though medical evidence supporting this is controversial.[3] Some researchers[who?][weasel words] also attribute it to excessive neurological sensitivity in taste and/or smell.
You might be eating to get the food "high". Our bodies usually tell us what we need and you're probably running
through inventory for something that'll make you happy. Our bodies are usually right till we mess around with it (with cigs and booze). Afterwards you're going to requires will-power when our bodies tell us the wrong cravings because we addicted ourselves to it.
You might be craving something else from cigs which is causing the binge attack. There is a huge MAIO
thread.
I know the feeling of anxiety during a diet and I believe that anxiety may cause us to eat more (because our bodies is trying to help us with our anxiety, just incorrectly giving us more food cravings).
I had the same anxiety when trying to quit cigs. I found myself actually smoking more. I would put limits and regulations on myself and it would only stress me out more causing me to want to smoke more.
And don't forget exercise (the easiest way to get a "high")!
Endorphin - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
I used this when I first started quitting cigs. Luckily I have dogs who love runs. Everything I had a any craving (for food or cigs) I would just take my dogs and sprint around the block at max speed till I was completely winded to achieve runner's high (it blocked all cravings for cigs for a few hours depending on how hard I ran).
I find it all a balance, we added cigs to our bodies which gave us a "high". Now we're trying to take it away, our bodies don't understand longterm effects just that right now the body feels better. So like a petulant child it'll whine and complain in your head. If we force ourselves to not have a cig the body goes to the next best thing, which for many is food.
Good luck bluedove! As an experiment can you try being with people at night? Could your loneliness be causing some anxiety?