May I give my 2¢ as a new vaper?
I spoke to a few people before starting to get an idea of what it was I wanted to get into. A friend sold me his iCare and I tried it for a few days. It was small and worked well enough for me to decide I wanted to stop smoking and vape. Wasn't a good starter for me though. I found I prefer DTL and it just didn't do much for me.
Armed with what little knowledge I had from that and reading I made my way to the Vape Shop. The iCare was there, but so we're a multitude of shiney cool looking gadgets the geek in me spazzed over.
I talked with the owner for a bit and she elected to recommend the Smoke qBox. Bought it and headed home.
That little box proved to be a huge pain. Just didn't work right. So I went back and swapped for a Revenger.
I know some may feel that's a bit much for a few days old vaper, but I found it works perfectly for my style. I ended up pairing it with a Big Baby Beast and haven't looked back. Since the BBB came with a rebuilds let deck I've started looking at making my own coils. Searching for more info on the Revenger led me here. Here I've read about DIY juice, starting that in about a month.
I guess my point is that a kit depends on the person. Unlike your father I like all things I can fiddle with and learn from. My kit started me down the road to be fully immersed in vaping. From building coils, making juice, learning about batteries, & finding a forum with all the info I need, I think it did what it stated...started me vaping.