After one fraud attempt and a canceled CC to go with it (for once, thanks BOA!), I've decided to pursue other forms of payment that are not linked to my checking account. At this time, I also do not want to sign up for an additional account or CC with my bank (or any other). Below are my options as I see them, starting with the most reasonable option (again, as I see it).
As a BOA customer, I have an option for using Shopsafe. It sounds like a good idea, however, I've read that the CC account still gets closed down if fraudulent activity is detected on the generated Shopsafe number. I've looked through the BOA site but can't confirm this. Can anyone here shed some light before I blow an hour on hold with customer service?
Prepaid / non-reloadable gift cards look like a good option, except for the 6%-10% upfront fees, and the apparent problem of vendor rejection due to not having an address that matches the card.
Reloadable cards: Reloading fees, monthly fees, and yet another place I'd need to submit my SSN. If my SSN is required, it's not going to happen. Period.
Paypal: Yeah. I' be happy to use it if I could, but we all know that story as far as most vendors are concerned.
So... If anyone can make sense of this half-question / half-rant, what are my best choices? I've overloaded myself with information and cannot seem to make a clear, informed decision.
HELP!!!
As a BOA customer, I have an option for using Shopsafe. It sounds like a good idea, however, I've read that the CC account still gets closed down if fraudulent activity is detected on the generated Shopsafe number. I've looked through the BOA site but can't confirm this. Can anyone here shed some light before I blow an hour on hold with customer service?

Prepaid / non-reloadable gift cards look like a good option, except for the 6%-10% upfront fees, and the apparent problem of vendor rejection due to not having an address that matches the card.
Reloadable cards: Reloading fees, monthly fees, and yet another place I'd need to submit my SSN. If my SSN is required, it's not going to happen. Period.
Paypal: Yeah. I' be happy to use it if I could, but we all know that story as far as most vendors are concerned.
So... If anyone can make sense of this half-question / half-rant, what are my best choices? I've overloaded myself with information and cannot seem to make a clear, informed decision.

HELP!!!