Hi, check my blog, I explain the basics of temp control.
It's normal that the resistance increases as you vape as that's how TC works, but from 0.5 to 0.65, that's not normal, it shouldn't be more than a few numbers.
The watts are what is going to make the coil reach the temp setting, but the temp setting is where the mod is supposed to stop the wattage and then pulse to maintain that "temp". The only thing about the wattage that will matter is if you can set it in temp control mode, if it's too low, the coil will take a while to reach the temp setting. But normally, you could set it very high and it shouldn't matter.
I set my mods at 50-70W, but with my temp set at where it's good, almost always, the watts never even come close to it.
Examples.. (looking at a few of my mods right now, but note that I'm only using various RTAs and on various mods)
1) 0.25 ohm (dual coils) - settings at 50W, 370F - running (as it hits 370F) 50W for preheat/pulses around 25W once reached.
2)0.23 ohm (dual coils) - settings at 60W, 400F - running (as it hits 400F) 60W for preheat/pulses around 45W once reached.
3)0.89 ohm (single coil) - settings at 50W, 240F - running (as it hits 240F) no preheat/pulses around 30W once reached.
4)0.75 ohm (single coil) - settings at 60W, 370F - running (as it hits 370F) 60W for preheat/stays and pulses at 60W.
5)0.85 ohm (single coil) - settings at 60W, 340F - running (as it hits 340F) 60W preheat/pulses around 40W once reached.
All of these provide me with the same experience (vapour production and heat, no dry hits at all)
Make sure that you lock your ohm (if the mod allows you to do so) when your coil is cool (room temperature).
But why you're getting dry hits would by that the wicking of your coil isn't fast enough, but you shouldn't get them regardless as that's what TC is meant to prevent. The only way that can happen is it's hitting the coil too hard and toast the coil a bit before the TC kicks in.
Try taking your tank off for 5 minutes, put it back on and tell it it's a new coil and lock it then. Sometimes it can happen that a mod misreads a coil during usage and that throws the TC setting completely off. Sometimes, the coil isn't that stable and causes fluctuations. Manufactured cartridges aren't the most reliable.