i dont have any other tips at the moment..i ordered a few from discount vapes and one from FT..so when i get those i'll see how things fit..i also ordered another top cap from FT so maybe that will help with the 510's to fit.
i contacted the seller, told him my problem, and he had a few suggestions.
1. lower my coil closer to the base
2. try and use a mech mod (nemesis, stingray, etc) rather than what i am using (mvp 2.0 11 w max) so that essentially it will heat up/cool down the coil more quickly due to the higher amp output (at the moment i cant shell out the cash for a new mod)
3. try and use a lower gauge wire, he suggested 28 gauge, with 3-4 wraps.(i currently only have 32g, which i use twisted, 2 strands, 6 wraps..it lands anywhere between 1.4 to 1.7 or so ohms)
i guess i do have a little wiggle room to lower my coil before it touches the deck..i can also get some 28 gauge kanthal cheap so that's do able..but i can't afford a new mod, so that's out of the question, for now at least.