ok heres the deal with the UPS thing. I talked to a clerk and they said it is 21, but thats only because they don't HAVE an age check for any other age just because it's less to keep track of. they said it can be anybody 21 or older they hand it over to, and if I had the package rerouted to the UPS store if I could show them I was 18 they could sign the package for me. but I'm having a friend come over whose 21 that day so I'm all good.