As somebody who uses lipos for years, i think your kind of missing the point as of why box mods don't use them.
They are used in regulated box mods quite successfully. There are a heck of a lot of MPV's out there plus all the higher power mods with them.
The problem per se is not that are swollen, but more of that they get swollen for all reasons. Like mentioned before here, these batteries get blown from undervoltage, overvoltage and incorrect storage voltage as well as incorrect handling like deforming it in any way. So, if you charge a battery and put it in a drawer, and take a look at it 3 to 6 months later, its gonna be swollen.
The thing is they do not burn easily. The exception is overcharging them or a puncture, but it takes a lot of overcharge. Even shorted, they get really hot and eventually they pop, but it takes a while and there is rarely fire.
I would not however use one in a mechanical mod.